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Well we did not get a map I guess because we could not find out about a sitter till too late. We hope you all have a good time and maybe next time we came come too.... Its just hard for us to find sitters and most of the time things are last min for us.

Happy Halloween.

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Ok everyone! It is Thursday night! The party is in two days. I asked everyone to confirm their attendance and those of you that did before last night have received a map. If you haven't received a map and directions, chances are you are not going to. I don't want to sound rude, by any means. It is just that we are now at max. capacity for a house party. Please don't take offense, as I asked everyone to confirm their attendance in the posts or private emails. If you are thinking of emailing me and asking for directions, please don't. I asked early on that everyone read the rules and confirm their attendance. If you haven't done so before now, I can't help that.

Confirm early next time! I do apologize but as they say, the early bird gets the worm!

Em

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I am so excited! Can hardly wait to see you all!

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Everyone is asking for party directions. I understand that, however, it is imperative that everyone understand that the directions, due to privacy and discretion matters, will not be given until no more than 3 days before the party. You will have directions emailed to you the Wednesday or Thursday (18th or 19th) before. I apologize for any inconvienence this may cause, but as previously stated, PRIVACY and DISCRETION are of the utmost importance. Your privacy is important to us. We want you to feel comfortable and relaxed enough to enjoy all the festivities.

Again, I am not trying to sound like a snob or a bitch. This is not my intent. My intent is to run a good, clean, private party. We want people to feel safe enough to attend an event in a private home. This means that everyone's privacy should be held in the highest esteem. If the directions are passed on to others who have not confirmed their attendance, they will be asked to leave. We have asked you to do two simple things. Read and Confirm. If you can do this and can comply with what you have read, you will have an excellent time I am sure!

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All right my peeps! We have quite the party goer list! We have 20 SLS members coming,16 being couples. That is 36 people on SLS so far, some of them SILA members, some not. We have one or two couples confirmed outside of that, so that brings it close to 40. What this means is that we are going to have a heap of people in our home, which we don't mind.

However, with anything of this size, we felt it is necessary to lay down some basic ground rules so everyone can have a great time!

I mean you all know basic etiquette, right!?! Cool. Remember your etiquette! Don't touch anyone who hasn't ok'ed it first. This is not a "grab" session and it isn't a free for all either. Yes, I do imagine nakedness will occur at some point in the night. However, that doesn't mean the person getting naked necessarily wants to get naked with you. Check it out first. Mind your manners and behave in an all round good manner. Don't be rude to others. I mean this is basic stuff.

If you are touched in a manner that is not ok with you, let me or my husband know immediately and that person will be escorted to the door. There is no compromise on this. If you touch someone or act inappropriately to someone, you will be asked to leave. There are no second chances.

Like I said, these things are given! I expect us all to have a great time but really want to stress because it is going to be in someone's home that everyone act with the utmost etiquette possible!

Other things!

I will be emailing directions a couple days or so before the event. If your name is not on the list, you will not get a map. Also, if your name is not on the list, you may not get in the door. I don't want to be snobby, by any means, but I don't care too much for party crashers. This is a swinger's event and discretion is necessary. Therefore, we need to have some security measures in place to keep discretion levels high. Respecting of everyone's privacy is a must and therefore, party crashers are not welcome.

I hear you saying "What about my friend who wants to come?" For those of you have friends who want to come... That is ok! If they are SLS members, have them add their names to the list. If they are not SLS members, one of two things need to happen. Either you need to tell me you are bringing a "friend" and give me that friends name or you need to have them join SILA and confirm that they are coming.

Ok! I hope you all have your costumes thought out and are ready! We are going to have a blast! We have a DJ and some of the coolest decorations and games you all can think of! If you have a song you really want to hear that night, make sure to post it here ASAP so the DJ can have it ready for you! I am so psyched about it! You should be too!

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Hey this is Em, the SILA Nymphos group owner/moderator!

I just wanted to give everyone a little more information on the party! We are having a classic Halloween costume party complete with prizes. We are giving away a glass dildo and have flavored condoms as party favors. There are other prizes as well, which include lubes, lotions, edible undies and other things as I acquire them! Costume contests include, scariest, lamest, most original, sexiest, prettiest and "couple" costumes.

There will be a plethera of food and we even have a DJ for the evening. There is no charge for this event but we do ask that you provide your own liquor. If you need directions, don't hesitate in contacting me! Have questions? Ask away!

I hope to see you all on Oct. 21st~

Em

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Costume Party!!!.....A classic Halloween Costume Party !!!.....Discuss this event here.....View event

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