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TOPIC: THE DOGS OUT THEIR
Created by: whatupjoe40
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THIS IS FOR THE DOGS OUT THEIR (GUYS) We got some BAD NEWS this morning, About VERY DEAR COUPLE WE KNOW VERY WELL!!! When a lady or Lady’s said “NO” “IT MEANS NO”, Not yes or maybe, It Means “NO”!!!! Let me tell you little about them. They were at a party with couples, single ladies, and single guys too, Last weekend!!! They are in to soft swing (only soft swing) how she got to this point, I don't know!!!! But before she knew it the guy was on top of her having “intercourse” As the guy was on top of her (FUCKING HER) She WAS SAYING TO THE GUY “NO PLEASE” “NO INTERCOURSE” Why her man was not their, I don't know why!!! It just goes to show that ladies need their man by their side. To help them in anyway they need HELP!!! The way I look at this is that she RAPE!!!! She looks at it the same way we both look at it “RAPE” So people please take care of your lady out their, So we don't hear of this any more!!!! As for the DOG that did this, Hope you get you're EYES CHECK!!! Listen to the lady who you are playing with!!! Because we all are here to have CLEAN HAPPY SAFE SEX!!! If I hear of this again about the DOG who did this!!! Plus the couple who brought him to the party, Watch you're self. That all I have to say about this DOG!!! If the dog likes to comment on this, let hear what he has to say!!! Thank You Joe Elaine

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I'll get there by and by, if nothing more than to say howdy and maybe share a meal.

Your parties sound pretty wild. I don't know if the old ticker could take it. ;-)

Perris CA
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Why thank you very much Turkey. We will have to meet one day soon. Then you will be one of those select single men I allow at my get togethers.

Friends to be, Gloria & Jerry

Apple Valley CA
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anybody ever notice that newdesertarrivals are some of the nicest people here?

Perris CA
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I will have to agree with OBD_posseman. I host parties at our home in Apple Valley. Now the difference here is we know 99% of the people who do come to the parties as we have been doing this for over 10 years. These are our friends and the new people we have met have fast become our friends. If anything of this was to happen at our place there would be definite steps taken: 1) Some one in our group would have told the person to stop and escorted him out of the room.

2)Then they would have come looking for either me or my husband. We are always close by in our parties

3) Any of the single men who do attend my parties I know personally or have been assured they are known by the couple who invites them.

I don't want to see single men bashed but this person was definitely out of order.

Friends to be, Gloria & Jerry

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From what I have read, obviously the "DOG" is a rapist and more than likely has a criminal record. If he has gotten away with it this time he will more than likely strike again. S o please everyone beware, we have a rapist in our midst. Our swing community is way to precious to allow this type of evil and illegal activity into our parties. This "DOG PREDATOR" will try again, he has found this community of swingers as his haven. I DO HOPE I AM WRONG! Again evryone be aware of whom you invite to your parties. Marce and AL

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When things get hot and heavy, lots of folks may not be aware that this kind of thing is happening.

Why not designate someone to give up their night of partying and just keep an eye out for this kind of behavior?

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Hi, I have to step up here and say that there are two things wrong with this situation. I'm a single man, been partying with the lifestyle for over 7yrs and never,never have pushed myself or none of the guys in my group have done anything like that descriped. Now the problem is this (1) if someone is causing a problem at anyones party, the host should take care of it immediately, especially if it involves "unwanted" sex! ! ! ! They are responsible for the guest at their party cause THEY invited them! ! ! ! The party host are there to provide a safe, consentual, and drama free atmosphere. (2) if the woman is gettin "man handle" and is voicing her refusual, then everyone at the party should come to her aid, men, women and anyone else to stop the activity when they feel its something that is not going along with the party flow. If I heard a woman saying "don't do that or screaming out loud that she doesn't want to do something "I" will step in in a heartbeat to stop the dude. I may interrupt some serious role play, but I would rather do that, than standby and see someong get "Raped" at a party. Single men bring a lotta of bad feelings to this lifestyle and I know their are those that don't act like that and we don't want any asshole screwing it up for the real Single Gentlemen. I hope the lady is better and take whatever actions needed to prevent this kind of incident from happening again, but you also have to get the party host to do a lot better to screen their "Single Men" guest a lot more closely. ODB Sactown Posse 2/3

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There is no question here...She was raped. No at any point means stop (by law, not just our little lifestyle) and being in the lifestyle is not an reason to be raped. She should file charges, but that takes alot of courage and that's why lots of these go unreported.

I am never far from my wife, someone does that to her...well it won't be pretty

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THIS IS FOR THE DOGS OUT THEIR (GUYS) We got some BAD NEWS this morning, About VERY DEAR COUPLE WE KNOW VERY WELL!!! When a lady or Lady’s said “NO” “IT MEANS NO”, Not yes or maybe, It Means “NO”!!!! Let me tell you little about them. They were at a party with couples, single ladies, and single guys too, Last weekend!!! They are in to soft swing (only soft swing) how she got to this point, I don't know!!!! But before she knew it the guy was on top of her having “intercourse” As the guy was on top of her (FUCKING HER) She WAS SAYING TO THE GUY “NO PLEASE” “NO INTERCOURSE” Why her man was not their, I don't know why!!! It just goes to show that ladies need their man by their side. To help them in anyway they need HELP!!! The way I look at this is that she RAPE!!!! She looks at it the same way we both look at it “RAPE” So people please take care of your lady out their, So we don't hear of this any more!!!! As for the DOG that did this, Hope you get you're EYES CHECK!!! Listen to the lady who you are playing with!!! Because we all are here to have CLEAN HAPPY SAFE SEX!!! If I hear of this again about the DOG who did this!!! Plus the couple who brought him to the party, Watch you're self. That all I have to say about this DOG!!! If the dog likes to comment on this, let hear what he has to say!!! Thank You Joe Elaine

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