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Thinking About Swinging?

Thinking about swinging? We just got into the lifestyle and this is my story. First know, that swinging is not for everyone. If you are thinking about getting involved to repair a damaged or broken relationship or if you feel that you have to convince or coerce your partner to participate, then your relationship is more than likely going to be doomed. My wife Mary (name changed to protect the innocent..lol) and I have been married for almost 6 years now and have a great relationship and marriage. We have wonderful children, a beautiful house and just a very good life in general. We both consider each other our best friend. Our sex life had always been ok, and I think she would agree. Not fantastic, but ok. You know, the occasional (or maybe more than occasional) dry spells of a week or two without it and when we would become intimate, I would’ve never claimed to exactly perform like a porn star. It was typically the usual, we go to bed wearing nothing sexy, gotta make sure the kids won’t hear us or walk in on us. Especially the teenager because she would’ve been mortified. Our encounters were pretty routine. A little bit of rubbing and caressing, a little bit of oral, then 8 times out of 10 intercourse would be straight missionary, with maybe the occasional doggie style. I would cum, and every once in a while she wouldn’t and tell me that it was ok. Then we’d roll over and go to sleep. I know, pretty lame.
I’ve always felt bad about our “ok” sex life and I had always kind of thought that Mary had desires or fantasies that she wanted to experience. She had a little bit of a wilder past than I did before we met. I’m not saying she was a slut or anything, but it’s just that I grew up as a Wally Cleaver, so Kermit the Frog has a wilder past than me. I guess it was just a vibe that I picked up; however, she did occasionally mention her interest in bondage and being controlled. Which, we did sort of try a couple of times but failed miserably. The first time was attempting to tie her hands to a head board with a couple of my neckties but the damn things came untied. No real bondage there, and once we used an actual pair of police handcuffs on the head board but they only killed her wrists. Wreckage,… just pure wreckage.
Now, the main subject. Mary and I share the same laptop computer that we keep in our family room. One day maybe about 8 months ago, I jumped on to quickly look something up. It was her profile, and when I clicked on the search toolbar, a drop down list appeared with a history of searches. First, I promise I WASN”T SPYING. You may be thinking “creep” but I wasn’t, I’ve always completely trusted her. So anyway, I was taken aback by what I saw. Actually, I think I just stared at the words for a couple of minutes in disbelief ….and….increasing arousal. “How to get your husband into swinging” and “Swinger parties (our local) county” was what I saw. Instant erection. I felt a combination of excitement and shock, and maybe a little sadness because it now seemed, or was obvious that she desired to have sex with other people. I immediately began researching the swinging lifestyle. I had never even given it thought before ( because remember?, Wally Cleaver) but this sparked my interest and I researched and researched everything I could about the lifestyle, in general and locally. As I learned more, the sadness began to go away and more excitement kicked in because I began to understand that swinging is in no way cheating but just enhancement. I badly wanted to discuss the subject with Mary but over the course of the next couple of weeks I agonized about how or when I’d bring it up. I didn’t want to embarrass her or risk having her think that I was spying on her. One evening we were sitting on the couch talking and having some drinks. With the liquid courage I was able to finally bite the bullet and bring up the topic. I believe I asked her about fantasies and I was finally able to muster up the courage to tell her about what I had seen on her profile. Thankfully she only seemed to giggle about it and seemed very interested in talking about it. We talked about it for a few minutes and at one point I asked her if she thought she’d be interested in checking out one of the local swinger clubs. Looking back at that conversation now, I don’t know if she was in fact embarrassed about it or if her interest had just changed since her internet search but she explained to me that she was really just more into the idea of exhibitionism where the two of us would have sex together in a swing club.
So, now we’re quite a few months later, about 3-4 weeks ago. We were sitting on the couch talking and enjoying a couple of drinks (we love doing that, as you can tell) and I don’t exactly remember how but the subject came up again. This time she seemed more interested in the idea of actual swinging. We discussed, as I learned from my earlier research, ground rules that we should follow if we were to pursue this fantasy. Ground rules such as, if either one of us is uncomfortable; we stop with no questions asked or resentment towards the other. Also, the type of swinging we thought we should consider. We both kind of thought we’d consider soft swinging but weren’t closed to full. She at first expressed that she felt she’d be more comfortable with closed swinging but I explained that I felt it would be easier for me to see what she’s doing rather than IMAGINE what she was like with another man. She seemed to agree with that idea and I also learned that she wouldn’t seek out a female/female encounter but she wasn’t completely closed to the idea either. Erection.
Nothing was mentioned about it for the next couple of days until I asked her if I should make a reservation at one of the local clubs. She said yes but seemed hesitant and shortly later confided that she didn’t think she could go through with it. I was a little surprised but made sure I didn’t get upset about it. After all, that was ground rule number 1.
Early the next evening just before I got off work, she texted me and asked me if I’d stop on the way and help her by picking up the kids from where she was going to be. When I met her there, we just switched vehicles and while saying goodbye, she slyly looked at me with a grin and said she wanted to talk to me later about something. I kind of expected it must be about swinging but didn’t want to look to anxious. Later on, once she got home and the kids were in bed, we were on the couch talking (go figure) and she said she wanted to talk to me about our sex life. She said she had decided that she would like to engage in the lifestyle but that she didn’t think clubs would be her thing. Eventually, she set up a profile on SLS, and over the next week we received a little bit of activity but nothing we wanted to act on or vice versa. Although, being newbies, our profile wasn’t and still isn’t that great until we get some better pics up. Anyway, after about that first week and a half, she must’ve read from other swingers about the great times they have had at this particular club I had looked at before, so that kind of changed Mary’s opinion and she was ready to give it a try. We figured we would just sort of make it a trial run.
Approximately a week later; Game Day. Nervous excitement is what I felt all day, and I think what Mary felt too. She did seem excited. She had gotten her hair done the day before, and this day she was getting a manicure, pedicure, and buying something new and sexy at Victoria’s Secret. I too, was at home making sure I groomed VERY well. So as the evening approached Mary had a bag packed with her sexy lingerie, heels, and was dressed sexy. I showered, put on some nice clothes, the babysitter arrived and we were off to our “friend’s party” stopping for dinner first. Service at dinner, which I’m sure, was a normal speed seemed to drag on forever because I was nervous and anxious to get those jitters out of the way. I figured I’d relax once we got settled in at the club though. After what felt like a long ride into a rural area where the club is located, we finally arrived. We sat in my vehicle, and as I had previously told her, I reminded her that if things started happening with a couple, to not feel guilty. She told me the same thing. We found the door and walked in. There was a desk where there were a couple of people in front of us checking in. When I saw these people my first thought was that maybe we should turn around. I sensed that Mary felt the same way, but we ended up checking in, paying our fees and were greeted by a nice couple who were the hosts for the evening and said they would give us a tour, along with a single man who was also new. First we checked our alcohol (BYOB) at the bar, received a key to a locker to store Mary’s bag and began the tour. The couple led us around and showed us the bar area, the different “play” rooms, the lingerie store, billiard area, hot tub along with “finishing” room and laid out all the club rules. After that we decided to go have our first drink. (Well, third, we drank at the restaurant) We were nervous and needed it! We decided to go check out the lingerie store where we were greeted by a couple of ladies, of whom one was named Diana (name changed). Mary found a couple of different negligees that she liked and asked Diana for her opinion. Diana helped her try a couple on which involved some light touching which I found pretty hot. When Mary came back in the second time wearing the second one that she tried on, I thought “Some dude is getting VERY lucky tonight”. She looked HOT in this bright red negligee that came down to just about mid ass. At one point I heard a gentleman standing by me say quietly “She’s bad!” She asked me to go get her heels out of the locker. When I got back with her heels, and she put those on and I wanted to pull her into a play room right then and there. But, we went back to the bar area. The same “She’s bad!” gentleman complimented her shoes as we walked by. We sat down at a table with our drinks and were people watching for a while. The place was beginning to pick up. Then the MC (“She’s bad” guy) came out making some different announcements and said that they would soon be starting, and needed volunteers for a bikini contest. Eventually, the contest was about to begin and the MC still needed a couple of judges….he pointed at Mary. Yeah, he had his eye on her! Mary went to the dance floor and took her seat with the other judges. During the contest a single guy walked up to me and started talking to me like he really gave a shit. He just wanted to stick his cock in my smokin’ hot wife! Meanwhile, as each of the maybe 5 contestants were displaying their bikinis, or bodies, they would hug, rub up against and touch each judge. When the first one got to Mary…I got a massive hard on. Once the contest was over, Mary came back over and after a couple of minutes the single guy asked if we wanted to go dance. Being naïve, I didn’t see a problem but as soon as we got out there the dude started grinding Mary. She looked very uncomfortable and I told him we were looking to interact with couples. Thankfully he VERY much respected that and even seemed very apologetic and walked away. Mary and I walked back to the table and met and spoke to a very attractive couple for a couple of minutes. By this point, we are starting to get pretty tipsy so I don’t exactly remember what happened to them but we decided to take a walk back to the play area. We got to this one larger room that had a window where we saw at least 10 people engaged in a wild orgy. We watched for a minute and Mary was approached by the single guy who we had our tour with. He didn’t stick around though. Then we began talking to the gentleman host who gave us our tour and he was asking us what we thought. We spoke to him for a few minutes. At this point it’s getting pretty late. I’m thinking that nothing is going to happen with another couple and in my head was planning on taking Mary into one of the rooms by myself. The host then introduced us to a couple who had been around the block for a while. She was attractive, and he was ok. We all spoke for a little bit, then Mary and I ventured back to the bar area and sat down on a couch. As soon as we sat down the woman we had just spoken to approached us and in so many words asked us if we wanted to fuck. I believe I said “sure”, and Mary seemed very willing so we followed her back and went into a play room right next to where we had been talking to them. I closed the door and everyone was undressing. There were two full beds against each other and both ladies laid down on their backs. The other guy (Jack) immediately went to work on Mary. I thought he was using his tongue but she later said she didn’t think he was. He was vigorously manipulating her G-spot with his fingers. I mean vigorously. All I could hear was the rapid squishy sound and Mary was moaning..loud! Meanwhile, I was going down on his wife (Jill) using my tongue and caressing her body. While doing so, I noticed the ladies reaching over and caressing each other’s tits. Nice! Next thing I remember, I got on the bed and was caressing and kissing his wife and noticed that Jack was still going to work on Mary’s pussy with his fingers. Then Jill told me it was my turn. I laid down on my back and she gave me a blow job. I looked up and noticed Jack was standing next to Mary and she was giving him head too. After what seemed like a minute or two, Jill stopped and I got up for my condom. Jack was doing the same thing. He ripped it open with his teeth, and the next thing I know just as I’m getting mine on, Jack is already plowing Mary missionary style. I looked over and just saw his ass, Mary’s legs and heard the plop-plop sound with Mary moaning. I then entered Jill missionary and got to it. After again what seemed like a couple of minutes, I pulled out and got Jill on all fours. I happened to look over and so was Mary. Jack was working her, and I entered Jill and continued. Now the embarassing part for me. I decided to switch to anal and ran into problems. I had a hell of a time getting it in. Then the worst thing imaginable happened. More than likely with everything going on, performance anxiety, difficulty entering her ass, I began to go limp. Oh shit! What am I going to do? I was very aroused so I didn't get it. I think I’m too young to need Viagra. Luckily after a few seconds and jerking my cock, I got hard again. Jill also grabbed some lube and applied it. I got it in. Jill whispered "There we go" and I slid in all the way. I slowly thrusted and noticed Mary was still on all fours. Jack was using his fingers again! Heard that loud squishy sound. Mary did later say that he was rather small, so maybe that's why. After a couple of minutes I came. Then I got up and went around to Mary and Jacks bed where he was still fingering her from behind. I laid down next to Mary and Jill scooted over towards her from the other side. Then I still can't believe what I saw! Jill put her pussy right in front of Mary's face and Mary tasted her. If I hadn't just come, the sight of this along with the slurping sounds would have made me explode. Meanwhile, I rubbed Mary's back and Jill’s legs. Finally, we all sat up and began to redress. As we tore the sheets off of the beds I noticed that Mary's juices had left a 2 foot diameter on the bed. I said "My God, Mary!" She laughed. We all thanked each other, said our goodbyes and Mary and I headed back towards the bar. She stopped in the restroom and I continued in the bar for a smoke. I spoke to the host again and he asked me if I had a good time. I told him I had a great time. Mary then joined me for a cigarette. As we were leaving, we came across Diana (earlier from the store) and her husband. Diana asked Mary if she'd come back again and if she had a good time. Mary said yes. Diana asked her if she would want to play. Mary said sure. We left and on the way home, I was SO hot for Mary. I attempted to get her off during the ride but she was too worried about my seat. We got home and were so exhausted we went to sleep.
The next couple of days were a little rough. The very next morning, and all day Mary was completely hung over. She normally doesn't suffer hangovers that bad but we figure she was badly dehydrated (wonder why?) I felt ok physically but a little weird mentally. Not really sad, but just strange. I think it was just a culture shock. She seemed ok mentally. The day after that, I returned to work and it was a little bit worse. Probably because I wasn't with Mary all day and all I could think of were the images and sounds I heard between her and Jack. When I got home that evening though that all changed. I pulled into the driveway and Mary was at the grill preparing dinner and looked HOT. I wanted her. She was feeling much better and her spirits were high. We had a nice dinner, got the kids to bed and, you guessed it, chatted on the couch. I told her how I had been feeling. She told me that she was doing ok, but that during the encounter she was doing everything she could to not pay attention to Jill and me. She said the only time it bothered her was at one point when she noticed I had Jill from behind and I was making some noises. Earlier at work, I had thought of something that I felt would make our swinging experiences much easier. I asked Mary if she was ok with the idea that if we had any encounters with other couples earlier in the evening, and then get our own play room and finish the evening together. I said it wasn't even so much a sexual need as it was an emotional one. She agreed but had the idea that we get a hotel near the club and have sex there first. Anyway, after our chat we went upstairs, she put on another sexy negligee and we had the most awesome hot monkey sex! I was so hot for her, I fucked her like a porn star! We professed our love for each other and are anxiously anticipating our next swinging encounter.
The purpose of this story is in no way intended to be a "Penthouse" type letter for people to diddle themselves to. Hell, I’m no Jackie Collins so I don't even think my details are all that great. But as best I could I wanted to cover our complete experience in detail from just thinking about the idea to our first actual encounter to include the aftermath. I had read that there can be some emotional difficulty early on and I've experienced it and maybe still am a little bit to a certain degree. But our conversation and great sex last night really helped though. I find my wife hotter now than I ever had and we’ve been having terrific wild sex. I now truly believe that if a happy couple enters the lifestyle for the right reasons, your relationship really can flourish. I believe mine has. Just remember to communicate, communicate, communicate! Happy swinging!
-Dirk D.

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