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About our first swinging experience!

About a year ago, my wife and I started lightly talking about swinging. It started as a curiosity and fun bedroom talk, and slowly morphed into more of an active fantasy. Ever since discovering /r/swingers on Reddit, we have always enjoyed reading about others' experiences, so much so that I hoped one day to be able to write my own. The following is a little bit about our first experience. It is in no way a play by play, or even written erotica. If you read below, you'll quickly understand why a play by play would take days to write. Also included will be some of our big takeaways and impressions from the weekend, and just everything in general. Knowing myself, this will probably be a decently long post, but hopefully all that will read it will find it exciting and informative.

First, some background. My wife and I are 26 and 27, respectively, and have been married a little under a year. However, we've known each other for much longer (10+ years), and have a great marriage, and an amazing sex life, even before all of this swing talk got started. Of the two of us, I was always the more sexually open and liberated half, and I have seemingly always been the one to suggest new things to my more shy and reserved wife. I will say, I've never suggested anything to try that is purely for my benefit, it has always been things I thought she would like, and I'm currently batting 1.000 on my suggestions, because I like to think I know her better than she knows herself at times. Neither of us had wild sex lives before marriage, but since starting to date and growing together the comfort and stability we had with each other really made us eager to try new things to keep the passion burning. Our basic ethos is that you can't get stuck in a rut if you are always trying your best and doing new things. We have always found time and energy for each other, and always have wanted to do our absolute best by the other. Call it romantic gobbledygook if you want, but I see all of that as a big driving force behind all this, and the reason everything went so well.

My wife has always been a very sexual person, when I get her into the mood and we are in the bedroom. However, out of the bedroom, and in normal life, she isn't that sexual. I've always wanted her to feel as sexy as I see her every day, to show off a bit, and see how desired she can be by others. She doesn't see herself as that, and I always thought she'd feel a bit more empowered if she did. So we started off by posting some pictures on a website. When the comments and PM's stared coming in, she started to get more excited, to see that I wasn't the only one who found her sexy. Then we started posting pictures as a couple, which we both found thrilling. Our sex life got a huge boost, and soon instead of me asking to take some pictures for the site, she was the one jumping on me and handing me the camera. In this time too we had messaged a couple or two on KiK, traded some pics back and forth, but nothing ever really got off the ground, it was fun, but we just didn't seem ready yet so I didn't push it.

And then about a month ago we started messaging a couple, and things really clicked well. They were our age, married about a year, and had never had any experience with others either. They were very similar to us, in terms of their general relationship dynamic, and I think it was comforting for all that none of us really had any idea what we were doing. The KiK messaging started out as a big group message conversation, pictures and sexy messages flying back and forth, as well as all kinds of ?get to know each other? type small talk. Then we started having side conversations, the wives got along great, developed quite a bit of chemistry. I got to be good friends with the other husband, we had a lot in common, and conversation flowed comfortably and easily. He started messaging my wife, I started messaging his wife, but everyone knew all that was said, no secrets were kept. My wife would read my side conversations and get turned on, and I'd do the same for her. After two weeks, this couple really felt like old friends to us. I don't know that either couple started talking with the intention of actually meeting, but after messaging for three weeks, Skyping a few times, having our sex lives at home go from a 10 to a 15 (on a 10 point scale), we all started discussing actually getting together. After my wife and I discussed where we were at with everything, and decided to go for it, we very quickly had plane tickets and a hotel room booked for the weekend halfway across the country.

We had a good week and a half after buying plane tickets to firm up our rules and expectations for the weekend. The other couple graciously offered us their guest room for the weekend, but my wife wasn't completely comfortable with that, so we got a hotel room in case we wanted to remove ourselves a bit and regroup. The only time we set foot in the hotel was to check in after they picked us up at the airport. We discussed whether we would do a full swap or not, and at the beginning we weren't sure. My wife's big hangup initially was the worry that she couldn't separate sex from romantic feelings, so she was apprehensive in the lead-up to the trip. I was generally pretty sure I was personally ready for anything that might happen, and my only real worry was that my wife would have a good time. In the conversations we had with each other, we made it clear that neither of us had any expectations that the other could fail to meet and cause disappointment. We also determined that there was nothing that could happen, or anything the other could do that would irreparably harm our marriage. We decided like the rest of our marriage, we were in it together, and would sort things out as a team. With the other couple, we talked and made it clear going both ways that we didn't have any expectations other than to meet and have a good weekend with people who would hopefully become new and great friends. Anything sexual that could happen would just be icing on the cake so to speak.

Friday rolled around, we each worked a half day,and with a strange mix of nervousness and excitement, were off to the airport. Somewhere between getting home from work, and stepping off the plane, I noticed a big change in my wife. She has always been hesitant when trying something new, sexual or not. Always has to dip a toe in the water before jumping in. But now, I started to get the sense she was just going to dive right in, she had thought about things, and she wanted all of it. Seeing her be able to cut loose like that, and have it turn out so well ended up being on of the greatest things about the weekend for me.

We landed, got our bags, and were picked up from the airport by the husband, as he worked closer to the airport than his wife. We planned on driving back to their place, picking up his wife, and going out to dinner. The 30 minute or so drive back from the airport was full of fun, semi-nervous conversation, but as always it flowed easily and felt natural. We went back to their place, picked up his wife, and went to dinner. My wife and I became even more excited, seeing that they were even more of an attractive couple in person. Dinner was great, we all talked like we had known each other for years, and just felt extremely comfortable with the other couple. We talked of getting dessert after dinner, but it seemed after talking and meeting, but no one wanted to have an absurdly full stomach the rest of the evening...you know, just in case.

After dinner, we went back to their place to hang out and watch a movie on Netflix. As a fun icebreaker, all four of us sat across their couch, the wives in the middle, and him on the other side of my wife, and I on the other side of his. Just sitting next her had my heart beating out of my chest, I felt like I was in junior high again...?omg, our legs are touching. Should they be touching? Do I put my arm around her??. That nervousness and new excitement was so thrilling, but not even close to what was to come. Everyone cuddled and nervously touched through the first movie. About 30 min into the second movie, all hell broke loose. Apparently the tension had reached critical mass, and I don't know who made out with who's wife first, but the next thing I knew, there were clothes all over the living room, I'm being deepthroated by a gorgeous woman who I don't happen to be married to, and my wife has her legs in the air being eaten out. Whoa. Things quickly progressed to sex, and not with the person I've been having sex with for the last four years. I can't even begin to put words to the excitement that is watching your wife fucking someone, while getting fucked yourself. It was really just sensory overload.

After things reached their natural conclusion out on the couch, we ended up in their bed, talking and touching each other. The wives got together while the guys recovered. My wife had always been very curious about girls up until this weekend, and I was excited for her to be able to explore that (and to get to watch). I will definitely say she is no longer curious, she loved it! Watching two beautiful women so thoroughly enjoy each other sexually has to be one of the most visually stunning things one can witness. My head is still spinning.

The first evening ended some time around 4 am. It really is almost all a blur to me, but wow was it fun. I showered with not my wife, while the other two played around on the bed. My wife and I slept in their guest room. The next morning, we all woke each other up properly, then went out for a big breakfast and shopping. Neither of us husbands are particularly patient shoppers with our wives, but when they share dressing rooms in every store we went into, patience becomes a bit easier. The second day ended some time around 3 or 4 am also. The rest of the weekend pretty much followed that same story line, and by this morning we were all extremely sore and exhausted. I have no idea how many times each person got off, but judging by the smile on every ones face, and how tired we all were...I'd say it was exactly enough times.

Fast forward to this morning, we woke up after 2 or 3 hours of sleep at 5 am for our early flight, and we are back home. As a total understatement, what a weekend. There are so many things I will never forget about this weekend. No guy can ever forget his first two girl blowjob, or seeing his wife's face buried in a gorgeous woman's pussy for the first time. We definitely came back a better couple than we left, and we definitely were not lacking to begin with. To fly halfway across the country, meet someone for the first time, and spend 3 days with them being on top of each other (both literally and figuratively) the whole time is not something one really expects to go so well, but I'm glad we got to know them before, which made the trip less of a leap. But it turned out to be one of the best and most thrilling weekends of our lives.

Both my wife and I loved having friends with which we could be so open and candid with. No conversation was off limits, and it was just so much more comfortable than any other friendship we have ever had. It was truly remarkable. My wife finally got to experience what it was like to really be desired by someone other than me, and I was so happy to see her have that ego boost. The other husband and wife enjoyed the hell out of her, as did I, and she loved every second. And for me, being able to turn on, excite, and get an incredibly sexy girl off all weekend made me feel about 10 feet tall. There were two big surprises for me. The first was cuddling. I did not think that it would really occur, at least with the other wife. I know my wife saw it initially as more of an emotional thing, and I didn't think swingers really cuddled. But we did. A lot. We would all lay in bed afterward cuddling and making out with the other wife, with our wife, the wives together, whatever. And it didn't feel romantic, or emotional in the traditional sense, but it was fun, it was thrilling, and it felt right and comfortable for everyone. And more often than not, as a result, the ?afterward? often also ended up being ?before?. So that preconceived notion got shattered, and while I'm sure it doesn't hold in all situations, in this one it was just fine. The second, as I stated before, was seeing my wife completely let go and just do what feels good and totally enjoy herself. That was so exciting for me to see, and I hope that carries over into the rest of her life as well, it is a confidence that she doesn?t normally have much of. The other great thing about the weekend is that no one ever felt left out. We all just enjoyed ourselves, didn't keep score, and kept things relaxed and fun.

I don't know if we will try things out with other couples any time soon, that all remains to be seen. But I do know the bar got set pretty high. As I know the other couple will be reading this, I want to thank them yet again for their hospitality, and for making this such a great experience for the two of us, it definitely bettered us as a couple, and for that we will always be thankful. That all being said, I have the feeling a wonderful and fun friendship started this weekend, and we are looking forward to more trips, visits, and stories to come.