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ONLINE DATING PROFILES and STRIKING Similarities with Sales Marketing

Lifestyle BLOG posting from a couple with a psychology degree in human behavioral studies and a former professional Dating coach.

We have written some blog posts truly hoping make this community a better place through teaching others how offer quality communication, interaction, and increasing the skills necessary be successful creating a quality profile meet more people.

This post will be helpful for all members’ couples, single women and men are trying meet others using these types of media platforms or any online site.

Most people start a membership on any site hoping get connected with people in a few days not realizing they have no plan for marketing themselves.

Sadly most will be deactivated profiles in a few short months not knowing what went wrong and feeling that online is useless and unsuccessful.

We have seen ’s OF THOUSANDS of men QUIT and deactivate in less than a few months DUE NOT meeting anyone and it all Starts with the profile itself.

Like the Cliché if you HAVE NO PLAN , you PLAN FAIL!

Online platforms whether sexually oriented or not, are more MARKETING oriented than you might think.

Most members post a torso pic, dick pic ,boob photo or some other non-descript pic that does not show well, and then even worse , no profile description or information for the reader to glean and determine if there is a good match or if there is potential to move forward with that person to meet.

Think about it this way:

When you go shopping for say; a box of cereal, there are HUNDREDS of different brands and options available in the isle.

Would you choose to purchase the cereal brand that a has a non-descript photo, no ingredients information, and no information on the company?

Would you choose to go to the restaurant to eat if it had no pics, no description and no detail on what type of food or ambiance it offered?

We think almost 100% the answer would be NO.

When you are creating a profile imagine you are in competition with literally MILLIONS of other profiles in the immediate area for other member’s attention.

No quality pics and no description will place you at a MARKETING disadvantage!

Everyone one else has spent the time, effort and research on how create a quality profile which markets their personality, attractiveness and lifestyle direction accurately, packaged with a certain level of exciting details and pictures that makes you want to READ and meet the person who created the profile will be more successful. It’s exactly how we shop for products and has a striking similarity on how we choose people meet using online platforms.

All of the skills you use choose the right car, right house, right restaurant go and eat , should be the skills you use create a successful profile.

When you are looking CHOOSE something you are drawn certain things: let’s take a car for example. 1. You will shop for the best photos that strike your interest in attractiveness. 2. You will research the company and match for the right functionality and package options you like that best to fit your personality and driving style. mileage, power options, GPS technology, automatic lights etc. etc....in other words you did some RESEARCH and read some things about the car 3. You will search for specific brand or TYPE of car and check reliability info and other things that are important you 4. You will search for a certain location to see the car in your area and TEST drive to see if it’s a match, not choose the car that is 2000 miles away. 5. These are just examples but transition this thinking into creating an ONLINE PROFILE and you should use the skills, description and details that attract the right kind of people towards your BRAND profile.

Use quality photos to show personality, action sports, music, art, interest you may have, sexy well-dressed photos for men and women to garner attention and interest

NOT a selfie in the bathroom with a toilet in the background, mundane DICK pic with your sweat pants pulled down, or the usual, absolutely no photo at all ?

I mean think about it. When was last time you went a bar, pulled your pants down and got a date? Have you met anyone with a bag over your face so they couldn’t see what you look like? LOL Or the famous photo in the bedroom with an array of unkempt clothing , food articles and SHIT laying all over the place.

There are MILLIONS of profiles that truly have NO VALUE at all to their profile yet expect to meet people and get frustrated when they don’t.

It helps to know that sexually based website or not; there are many common things we do every day in our lives to make choices yet, here we completely disregard them in favor of meaningless pics and no description profiles, thinking it will work.

This is not how men and women psychologically choose to meet, or spend time to choose or see a product.

THE PRODUCT in this case IS YOUR PROFILE PAGE AND HOW YOU REPRESENT YOURSELF OTHERS.

YES there will be a few people as a minority of the population will choose meet you from a sentence profile and non-descript pic , but this will be very rare.

If you don't spend time on quality pics and something EXCITING and valuable say , why would anyone want or feel enticed meet?

You have already set yourself up for failure.

Its amazing us that we get contacted everyday people want meet but have NO profile pic, no description, no value. Or just nude bathroom selfie pics of dicks, close up of boob-or NO PIC AT ALL. Its just not a reliable way choose meet.

Yet they ask if we are interested?

WOULD YOU BE INTERESTED IN ANYTHING YOU CANT SEE, READ ABOUT OR HAVE ANY INFORMATION AT ALL?

In todays hyper availability of information we see more than half of the profiles out there with NOTHING in them.

Taking the time learn the process on how humans make choices , certain marketing ideas and using them in your own profile will be more than POWERFUL in making you successful here.

It just takes a little more thought, effort and time

There are 2 groups here in our opinion

SWING SITES often ADVERTISE as SEX sites this is NOT accurate at all.

SEX site is where you pay to get guaranteed sex from a sex service worker; This is a "sex dating site" where all natural human values of attraction and choice still exist. Even if FETISH based a good MATCH must exist between the parties to want to pursue meeting and have a SUCCESSFUL situation together.

A quality profile and a LOT of effort and WORK is required to make it happen as it is on any “dating website” GROUP 1

People with sexual "addiction” and a "need" like a drug addiction, for sex.

Couples that are trying to fix a marital issue like erectile dysfunction or marital boredom--they usually use terms like "add spice”, explore, try new things.

Finally, people looking to sexually explore for a short time. People seeking to fill a bucket list of things to try before going back to NORMAL world. This type often has no idea what they want, what they are looking for, and never placed any real thought behind their actions other than randomly starting a profile.

GROUP 1 will often be transient and GONE/quit the site after they realize this is NOT a "sex" site as most sites advertise but rather a "SEX DATING site " and all the natural basic psychology of human attraction still exist.

It takes EFFORT and thought to truly meet and attract the right people to meet EVEN more so on a sex site than the average everyday disposable dating site like Tinder, for example

GROUP 2 - Long time veteran, experienced members, with loving, secure strong relationships that just have an open marriage agreement of some sort or ethically non monogamous...and admittedly non monogamous singles. When you see COUPLES and singles profiles that are OLDER than 2 year, Likely GROUP 2

Guess you know which group we are.

Another issue.. INTERNET "dating " has changed the "integrity” of human interaction when it comes to this stuff. Interaction is disposable and most are here to full fill their own agenda..

Creating a longer lasting "relationship" is often much more difficult because most people couples , women and men included are PUSHING their own agenda rather than focusing on truly finding the best match for their intentions and compounded difficulty when people don’t know themselves enough to communicate HONESTLY what they want or need out of the lifestyle or interaction with others.