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Make A Man Feel Good - Blow Jobs, Techniques

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Make A Man Feel Good - Blow Jobs

This is what I have learned after years of experience. As a lover, not sharing oral pleasure is like having sex without an orgasm. Sure, it can feel good, nevertheless, if you know how to give great head, it is equal or be better than the best sex he has every experienced. When you are mindful of his sensations, and emotions then you will be better able to truly enjoy what life has to offer when it comes to oral sex or any kind of sexual activity. Try it just once and you will be amazed at the difference. Men love all oral sex. If you're down there, he's in heaven, period. Still, don't you want to introduce him to levels of bliss far beyond what he dared to dream could exist?

Being able to make him want you even before your lips touch him may sound difficult, but it's not. Your mission is to make him think he is about to receive the best blow job he has ever had. Anticipation and eye contact are powerful ways to make him feel desired. Blow jobs may be mostly about his pleasure, but don't forget to stop and really enjoy the feeling that comes from being responsible for making him feel amazing. You literally hold the power to his pleasure in your hands and lips.

Giving great head is an art form. First you need to decide if it is a "work-up to fast sex" and is being done just long enough to get him hard; or to give him earthshattering oral orgasmic bliss as the finale. There are infinite possibilities to be creative and provide amazing pleasure. Particularly, when you combine technique and enthusiasm, it can be incredible to both of you and will make you a fantastic lover. Plus giving head can be given and taken just about anywhere.

So when should you give him a blow job? Most mens would expect to get it at nighttime, so try to start avoiding going down on him during the nighttime. Most men wake up hard, so the morning is much better, but it's still not that adventurous or amazing. However, not many have gotten one while they were eating their breakfast or just watching TV, or when they come home from work.

What is more important to learning where you give it to him. The bedroom will get boring, so you need to start finding other places. Your best bet is to start with places that are safe but still adventurous. It does not matter what setting you choose, you can be home in bed or parked, but seek whatever level of privacy you need to feel relaxed and sexy. Remember that setting deal with the act itself. If you are on a cross-country drive, this is a wonderful way to make those miles go by faster. Just remember that there are lots of different settings from which to choose. Almost every man has a fantasy of his women going down on him, someplace other than in the bedroom.

Ultimately, when giving head, he is going to come. If you don't want to swallow, it's not the end of the world. He should be sensitive to your likes and dislikes, so back off with style. One way to give him earthshattering oral pleasure without having him come in your mouth is to finish him off manually. Ask him to signal you when he's about to climax so you can move your mouth and stimulate him with your hands. Simulate his favorite oral sex moves; use your fingertip to massage his nerve-packed perineum as you simultaneously stroke him with your other hand. Add some lube, which resembles the warmth and wetness of your mouth, and you'll really make his head spin. Just because you move your mouth, continue giving him some tongue action, suck his balls and lick his raphe (the vertical line in the middle of his scrotal sac) as you stroke him.

If you do it correctly, you get a man that will do ANYTHING for you. Furthermore, you make him eager to please you (cunnilingus). If you spend lots of time giving him oral sex, it's only fair that he should do the same for you too. Then, when it's your turn, just ask him too, do it. If you feel a bit shy, try getting into bed upside down - he'll probably get the message. Now is the time to learn how to give a give head and become his favorite lover.

However, if you approach this as something that disgusts you, or even a chore then you shouldn't bother doing it. No matter how much you have read or the cool tips you know, you will never give good head without desire driving it. Sex should be fun and exciting to each partner no matter what you are doing. Being aware of the beauty of sensuality in him and yourself is what makes any sexual experiences an amazing one.

Anatomy The cock must be hard if you are to note the important parts, especially those parts sensitive to stimulation by your lips and tongue. The first thing you must know is if he is circumcised. Circumcision is not universally practiced; there are advantages and disadvantages to cockes in both conditions in providing oral sex that bring the highest kind of delight to him.

Next take a close look at the shaft of the cock itself. There is a bulbous part of the organ near the outer end, larger in diameter than the shaft, which we often call the head. Technically this is the glans cock.

The outside perimeter of the glans cock is the corona. This joins the head to the shaft. This is the most sensitive spot on the cock. It is toward this ridge that you will direct most of your attention when you are giving head. Follow this ridge around to the underside of the cock. Some men are particularly fond of the effect their woman has on them when she pays attention to the underside.

You will notice a point of the juncture where the two ends of this corona come together. If he is not circumcised, this will also be the point where the foreskin is attached. This tiny area is easily the most sensitive spot on his entire body, and bringing him to climax simply by gently tapping the tip of your tongue directly on it is possible.

The meatus, the hole on the tip of his cock, is supersensitive. Stick the tip of your tongue on that spot and apply medium pressure. It's such a specific place, he probably doesn't even realize it has feel-good potential, so he'll love that you've discovered it.

Beneath the glans is the shaft of the cock. The shaft does not have many nerve endings and does not, therefore, give a man any high degree of stimulation when caressed manually or with your tongue. Sucking up and down on the shaft will not get him off. If it works, it is because the back of your throat is playing tricks on his glans cock (the top).

Beneath the shaft are the testicles (balls, jewels). The testicles are extremely sensitive to pain and are not usually considered subject to erotic stimulation to any particular degree. Not true! You can add a high degree of pleasure by paying the right kind of attention to them! Fifty-one percent of men surveyed said their partners ignored them during oral sex. Try this while your hand strokes his shaft, take one testicle at a time into your mouth and lightly suck it.

The nerve-packed patch of skin that is between his scrotum and his anus is the perineum, and it is another overlooked place. The best way to stimulate his perineum is slowly but gently to rub your fingers over it and gently scr*pe it with your nails and will feel fantastic to him. Just remember that this is a super-sensitive spot.

There are other parts of a man's body that respond with oral stimulation. Many men are particularly sensitive around the nipples. Kissing and sucking his nipples, generally lingual nipple caresses, will get him extremely turned on.

Learn to Read His Body Does he prefer the top of his shaft or the bottom of his shaft to be stimulated? Rarely does a man like both equally well. What type of stimulation does he like in the initial arousal faze, his balls to be nibbles, sucked and stroked, or the tip of his cock? To learn how close he is to orgasm, try resting your fingers on his artery located on the shaft of his cock. The faster the pulse, the closer he is to orgasm. At what point does he start to breathe harder? Let the noise guide your movement. How does he touch you? Generally, people touch you the way they want to be touched. Does he spend five minutes or 35 minutes giving you cunnilingus? Match his efforts. Does he touch you lightly or hard, fast or slow? Again match his efforts.

Lubricate - If you're going to be down there for a while, you may get a case of cotton mouth, which can cause chafing on his cock. Add some water-based lube, which resembles the warmth and wetness of your mouth, or saliva and you'll really make his head spin. Keeping him wet is critical, he's feeling the movement, wetness and warmth.

Your Mouth - The average depth of your mouth cavity is three to four inches and the average cock size is five to six inches, thus you can see the difficulty in getting a full cock in your mouth. The mucous membrane that is inside the mouth is similar to the lining of the vagina and the moist slippery feel of the mouth on the cock can be extremely pleasurable. That is why fellatio should be incorporated as part of a couple's foreplay, to heighten sexual arousal, or it can be the main activity, meant to bring the him to orgasm. Remember, it does not have to be the finale. Don't just put it in your mouth and start sucking, unless you just want to just "get it over with."

Tongue - Your tongue is your best friend. Sliding it gently up and down his shaft, like you're licking a long hard popsicle, will drive him wild! Keep the tongue moistened and wet as you lick. Circling your tongue around the head, just under the rim, it will touch areas that normally never get stimulated and will definitely bring your head giving techniques to a new level. This alone is something most women don't do often, as they stop at licking just the top of the head. When you start flicking that tongue around on areas that normally they do not stimulate or even touch you are going to be the Queen of giving the best blow job ever.

Lick your tongue around his balls, ever so gently as you then slide your tongue up his shaft. Use your tongue as if it were your fingers, exploring every inch of him to bring him to climax. As he feels that soft tongue exploring him up and down he's going to crave some harder, firmer stimulation. Tease him a little with your tongue action before you go down on him full force though. It will keep him wanting more. Don't be afraid to experiment with your tongue.

Hands - While your mouth is definitely your star player, calling in your hands as reinforcements will boost stimulation for him and increase your stamina since you're splitting up the work. Focus your mouth on the head while lightly gripping his shaft with both hands. This part is simple, but it can get a little boring after a while, so you will need variety in you hand stroking techniques.

Fingers - A light tickle with your fingertips of his balls, however, some men may be extremely sensitive in this area and prefer a light or no touching there. Use your fingers to gently rub his perineum. You can also determine how close he is to orgasm, try resting your fingers on his artery on the shaft of his cock. The faster the pulse, the closer he is to orgasm.

Check Him Out - The first time you have oral sex with him, you should take the time to observe his reactions and get the most information possible about his response's try the following:

While his erect cock points toward the ceiling, cup his balls in one hand and gently, using only your tongue, lick softly, but carefully along the entire underside of his erect organ. As you suck along the underside you will learn those areas that give him the greatest pleasure when your tongue is touching them. Unless he is made of stone, he will send you vivid clues that areas are most pleasurable.

As you discover, these areas of enhanced pleasure concentrate on them. For most men the most sensitive area will be the point where the ring (or corona) of the head and the foreskin are attached. By continued licking and tapping along this area with your tongue you are going to bring forth a geyser. If you are not skilled and you want to please him in a hurry, you can get him off in this way, to become familiar at first hand with the nature and delight of his climax.

As he is getting ready for a climax, you will note changes in his cock. These signs will be the same every time he climaxes so that you can prepare for his ejaculate properly. The head of the cock may swell larger then it is during the normal course of his erection. He may thrust his hips forward as he wants to send his body hurtling out his cock with his ejaculate. For most men, immediately before they ejaculate, there will appear at the tiny, lovely lips at the tip of the cock a clear drop or two of fluid. When you see this or feel the opening at the meatus you know that the decisive moment is nearby.

Where should you be when you are sucking his cock, between his legs, on top of him, in a "69" position? Where? Because of the structure of his cock, and the structure of your mouth, lips, tongue, and teeth. You can provide the highest degree of sensation to yourself and him by kneeling between his legs and approaching his cock from the bottom rather than from the side or the top. Don't believe me? Try the various positions. See what works best for you and him.

Approach 1 - Place his cock inside your mouth but do not tighten your lips around the shaft. With your head begin a circle motion. The cock will slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the circle motion. Watch your teeth on this one. A kneeling position will suffice but it is also effective when he is on his back and your head is directly over his cock. You should execute the circle in both clockwise and counterclockwise motions in a slow purposeful manner. Some men seem to prefer this technique, above all others. Frequently, while circling his cock, you will find him having multiple orgasms. He did not lose his hardness after each ejaculated. When you do the technique correctly, it means many hours of unadulterated pleasure.

Approach 2 - With him sitting in an elevated position and you on your knees in front of him lift his cock to reveal his balls. With your tongue find the underside of his balls. Now, while resting his balls on your wet tongue, lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his cock. Using your hands in this technique is permissible. Doing this technique several times in succession like licking a lollipop or ice cream cone is better. The lollipop lick is the one technique few men can tolerate for long periods without going off.

Approach 3 - Take him in your mouth by sliding your moistened tongue lovingly over the head until your lips close around the shaft at the point just behind the corona. Don't just open your mouth and close it. Just slide it in. He will enjoy it much more. Confine the shaft of his cock with your hand. Remember the shaft is insensitive to any kind of stimulation. By enclosing his cock with your hand you give him the sensation of having his cock confined, with practice, squeezing you hand or hands will increase its hardness and bring groans of delight from him.

Now you have several options. Try twisting your head from side to side making sure your moist lips stay in contact with the coronal ridge. While doing this, gently move your hand up and down his shaft. When he climaxes, he may want to push your head further down the shaft of his cock. He wants your mouth to take all of him, use your hands to create the illusion. As you are learning his climax, gently suck around the corona as he climaxes so that you can intensify his pleasure and increase the force of his orgasm.

This brings up a separate issue, letting him climax in your month, or having him give you a signal that he is about to ejaculate and taking it out.

There is one further refinement to this basic technique that will heighten his orgasm. If you place your thumb at the very base of the cock enough to block the tube through which the ejaculate spurts, the semen cannot escape although he is erupting and going through the reflex action of ejaculating semen.

If simultaneously you suck vigorously on the head of his cock, you can delay his ejaculate for several long moments. When you finally allow the ejaculate to spurt, it will last much longer. Although you delay the ejaculate for only a few short moments the intensity of his ejaculate will surprise you.

Don't be so slavish that you miss the fun of self discovery. Find out what works for you and for him and make your cock sucking as individual as your signature.

Approach 4 - One first things you encountered when you first started to suck cock was a gag reflex. Most men seem to want to force their cock down your throat as far as they can get it. The laws of nature seem to dictate that getting all that cock into your mouth is impossible.

Approach 5 - Now let us turn to another portion of his anatomy that you should not ignore, the family jewels. These two objects can enhance his feelings more than any other. Many people do not think of the balls as primary sexual objects. Many men are extremely sensitive and there must be a certain amount of trust built up between the two of you before he will willingly let you have undisputed use of these two pearls of delight! Begin by gently licking his balls with your tongue. As him becomes more trusting you may begin to play with his nipples with your fingers gradually increasing or decreasing the intensity as you gauge how he is responding. You may want gently to caress his cock with your hand while you are bathing his balls with your tongue.

Remember that the balls are extremely sensitive to pain and he will lose his trust in you if you do not respect any limits he places on them just as you have the right to place limits on the back of your throat until you are completely ready to receive him.

It is possible once you have built up this trust to take both his balls in your mouth. He will be more receptive to this if you thoroughly wet them with your tongue before taking them into your mouth. Unless him is into the new fad of complete body shaving, he will have tiny hairs on his testicles. By giving the balls a complete tongue bath before taking them into your mouth, you will have pressed these hairs down along the surface of the sac and will avoid causing pain by pulling on them. You will discover an entirely new world of sensations for him when you take the time to get to know his testicles!

Approach 6 - There are times when you will want to get him off in a hurry! Consider learning this first and then expand your repertory from that point. It is a very simple technique and if you understand his basic cock anatomy you will grasp this one easily. Place your lips around the head of his cock and twirl your lips wetly and gently around the coronal ridge at the back of the head of his cock.

By sucking on this area of his cock continuously you will produce a quick powerful orgasm. Bobbing your head up is not necessary on his cock to get him off. One other use of this technique is to get him hard again after he ejaculates and you will soon find him rip roaring to go again.

Approach 7 - Now after you have gotten him off, you need to learn how to get him back on again. Not just to get him hard but to keep him hard. Hard enough to want to orgasm again. A single climax exhausts many men and while getting him up again is possible you have a long way to go before you get him to climax again. Don't hesitate in your exploration of his body at this time. His nipples, his balls, his armpits, his earlobes.

One thing I find most exciting about the second ejaculate is the lack of expectation that you must get him to climax within a certain time.

Approach 8 - It's a fantastic way too mutually orally, please each other. It will work best for you if you get him to lie down on his back while you straddle him and start giving him oral sex. Meanwhile, he can start eating you out. The reason that you need to be on top is that it's easier to control how much of his cock you take into your mouth. The "69" position also works very well when you are both lying on your sides. "69" is not always the perfect way to provide him oral satisfaction. Inadvertently, one of you will "let up" your end, to experience the subtle pleasures the other is giving you.

Done correctly and unselfishly when both of you are completely in tune with each others inner most desires, the "69" is the ultimate. Still, because of the problem mentioned earlier in this lesson, most people practice it too early and it becomes an intensely satisfying experience for one person at the expense of the other. When you are completely on each other's wavelength, you will discover that this is the most effective way of giving plus receiving pleasure. The element that must be in place is simple: Both of you must want to give each other pleasure. If he is not interested in cunnilingus and only likes you sucking his cock, then attempting "69" is to ask for unhappiness in your relationship.

Approach 9 - Practice provides the perfect way to perfect your new skills. Slid down on the floor between his legs, reach up and touch him. If he is hot for you, it will already be hard or getting there really fast. If you are doing this without any prior hint of what you are doing, it may still be bent up inside his short. Starting without any hint is great. Frequently the best times occur when he least expects it.

Now go back down and unbutton his pants. Slowly start kissing the area between his bellybutton and his cock. If his cock is outside his shorts, let it touch your cheek while you kiss him. However, do not kiss it yet, anticipation will make him even hotter for you.

By now he is really into this. Go ahead and take his pants and shorts off, leaving his cock completely exposed and vulnerable to you. Go back to kissing just above it, but slowly move to one side. The inner thighs of a man are very sensitive. Tease him by kissing very close to it, but never quite close enough. When you feel you have teased enough, you are ready to start. On a side note, I don't think you can tease him enough. Remember that YOU are in control here, and that he wants YOU. When you do, you are giving in. It would amaze you at how hard he can get if you tease him for 30 minutes or so.

Now that you have decided to begin, get ready to make him very happy. Run your tongue over your lips and get them very wet and look into his face. He will probably be watching you since he wants to watch you. Now open your mouth just slightly to tease (yes, more teasing) and excite him and come very close to his cock. Breath on him, blow on him with your hot breath. Stick your tongue out again and reach for him, tease him.

Making sure your tongue is dripping wet, begins at the bottom of his shaft and lick upwards, slowly. Turn your head sideways and pretend to take a bite of him, gently letting your teeth touch his flesh. Wet him again with your tongue and use your hand to spread the liquid around. A wet cock looks and sounds a lot sexier than a dry one.

After those first few sucks, stop sucking his cock. Begin moving down now. Slowly nibble your way down his shaft to his balls. Kiss, lick, love those things. Most wives forget them completely. Then continue moving down. Let your hand caress and make long hard swipes across the sensitive area between his cock and anus. If he had a pussy, this is where it would be . . . and all those nerve endings are still there. I like to work in this area for a few minutes. Let your dripping tongue massage him, gently nibble while continuing your caressing. This should drive him crazy and make him want you to love his cock even more! He will quickly, with his moans, let you know if he likes this.

When you think he is getting close to coming, work your way back up to his cock. Again begin by licking his cock with long, wet passes of your tongue, with upward swings of your tongue, from the base of his shaft to the rim of his knob, do not stop. Continue your long, wet lick over the top of his cock, lingering at the center. If you squeeze the shaft at the bottom and push up (like a toothpaste tube), some clear liquid might come out. If it does, stick your tongue in it and pull away.

Close in on the head like it was chocolate ice-cream cone and take the whole knob into your mouth. Hold it there and listen to him moan. Now take as much cock as you can get into your mouth, the more you get, the better it will feel. He will really moan if you can press your lips to his body with his whole cock buried in your mouth. Stay there, with the cock down your mouth, for just a moment. Feel it inside you. This can be almost as luscious as having one in your pussy. It grows on you.

Moving as wantonly as he can handle it (do not let him come yet), slide your mouth up and down on his cock. If he gets to close to coming, stop, or at least slow down. You can also completely withdraw and suck on his shaft from the side, as if you were taking a bite out of it. You can also slide your fingers, made in an O-shape around the shaft, up and down or around and around the base of the knob with the rhythm of your sucking.

Next take just the knob in your mouth, suck it as if it were a nipple or a straw. This should feel so good to him, mine loves it and it makes my pussy hot just thinking about it. Then take another suck, a long, sweeping one, where you take the whole cock and suck it all the way up like you would a Popsicle and then go back and do it again, sucking on the way down as well.

Here is an important thing to know. Any of these moves will feel great the first few times or more, but after a while, it's as if the cock gets immune to feeling. When you sense this, it is time to move onto your next play. You do not want the cock to go to sleep. You want it constantly stimulated, almost, but not quite, to the point of orgasm.

Which is just about where we are now. You have got a raging hard-on in your right hand and some tight balls in your left. Move your right hand all the way to the base of the cock and squeeze it there. This will cause the shaft to fill and thicken, and by now the knob will be shining and smooth. Again, take it into your mouth and suck and try out all your various moves until you know the man cannot stand any more. He is going to blast off.

Right before him comes his cock will get extremely rigid and might even twitch. Learn to recognize this point!

What you do now is between you and him. Countless men love the feeling of coming in a woman's mouth. If you like to swallow, you can be sure he will not object! Right before him is coming, and while he is coming really suck hard on his cock. This will make him have a killer orgasm.

Another solution, and this is a pleasant one too, unless you are making love where you cannot make a mess, is to let the warm, wonderful juices gush into your hand and then slide it around the already wet cock. It makes it so slippery and delightful to touch! You will want to run your hands through it, taking advantage of its slipperiness to feeling that hard cock all the way up, smoothing the glistening fluid over the knob to his enjoyment.

Or you can also back off and let the mixture gush. Cleaning the curtains after sex is not very romantic, so try to keep it on your partner and you. What you do at this point is up to you. You can end your session there and clean up, or you can . . .

Another finale, which leads you two into another session, is quickly to mount him. You have to be able to judge when he is about to come for this to work.

Just remember that men love to have oral sex. You can never do it too much. If you want to go for another session after he comes, start kissing other parts of his body that you know make him hot. After a few minutes you can return to his shaft. Even if it is still soft, you can start sucking it again. There is nothing like watching and feeling him gets hard in your mouth.

Well now you're done, and you have a man that really thinks you are hot! Now would be a good time to let him start on you, as he is feeling very 'giving' at this point.

Approach 10 - A hummer is an oral sex technique where you literally hum, creating spine-tingly vibrations, while going down on him. You don't have to keep it up for the entire below-the-belt session. Unless you both want a good laugh, I don't recommend humming a song. Nevertheless, if you add this erotic embellishment to your usual repertoire of licking and sucking, you'll blow his mind.

It's easy to do. Simply make "mmm" sounds for a few seconds at a time in a smooth, steady tone as you move your mouth up and down his shaft. Varying the pitch of your voice creates different sensations: Lower pitches create slower vibrations; higher pitches create faster ones. Also, the vibrations are most intense at the opening of your mouth, so if you really want to make him explode, focus on the supersensitive head of his cock with your lips.

Approach 11 - The best position for this very sensuous cock sucking movement is kneeling over him. If he is on his back kneel between his legs, in front of him while he stands. You may like this position because the cock feels thicker in your mouth and throat and you have complete freedom to play with his balls while doing this maneuver.

This technique creates a slight vacuum pressure on the cock but only enough pressure to pull the cock into your mouth ever so slightly. Your lips are at a depth so that you can touch the shaft of his cock with the tip of you tongue, allowing you to flutter your tongue up and down. The meatus, on the tip of his cock, is supersensitive. Stick the tip of your tongue on that spot and apply medium pressure. It's such a specific place, he probably doesn't even realize it has feel, good potential, so he'll love that you've discovered it. With your lips firmly wrapped around his cock head, gently flick its tip with your tongue.

Approach 12 - After you have become comfortable with basic sucking and you have become accustomed to his cock in your mouth try this action. It will take his breath away. With your lips firmly wrapped around the cock shaft try very slowly to reach the base of the shaft or as close to it as you are comfortable.

With your nose trace a figure eight as if the figure eight were lying on its side. Your figure eight motion should be three to four inches long. Slowly travel up the shaft of the cock to the head, doing the figure eight motion. Keep doing this motion and let your lips firmly travel up and down the cock shaft. Do this for as long as you are comfortable with it, his wildest fantasies are coming true.

His cock will become harder and warmer as your warm moist mouth and throat create friction by going up and down. It is time to cool him just a little with this technique. When you get tired of the movement slow down and return to basic sucking.

Approach 13 - Next time you want to pleasure him orally, start by swirling your tongue around his nerve-packed corona (the ridge where the head meets the shaft) and gently sucking the tip of his shaft. As his arousal grows, lick the length of his cock, alternating between sweeping up-and-down strokes and circular motions. You'll really make his toes curl if you caress his balls as you tantalize his manhood with your tongue. Or, lick his testicles as you manually massage his shaft.

When you're ready to take more of him into your mouth, try this titillating gag-proof technique: Form a tube with one hand and put it against your lips. Then, wrap your mouth around his shaft and slide your mouth and hand up and down in unison (make sure he's well-lubed with saliva or water-based lubrication). You'll send him into an orgasmic tailspin if you use your free hand to rub his frenulum (the thin ridge that runs the length of the underside of his cock) or supersensitive perineum (the area between his balls and anus) simultaneously.

Approach 14 - Using your hand at the base of his cock is generally the best technique for giving great head. Depending on the size of the cock, wrap your mouth around the tip while placing your fingers and hand around the shaft. As you slide up and down on him, suck in a little to provide the feeling of tightness but be careful not to suck too hard. A firm grip on the base, sliding up and down with your mouth and hand while provide complete stimulation and great blow job! Make sure you cover your teeth with your lips too! There's nothing worse than scraping his hard cock with your teeth right in the middle of giving him the best blow job of his life!

Using your hand with your mouth can give him the feeling that you're taking his entire manhood in your mouth. He'll think this is the best blow job of his life if he feels every inch of his hardness being used. If you CAN take it all the way to the back of the throat, all the better; but if you can't, using the hand with the lips and mouth give him the feeling that he's being sucked from the base to the tip of that hard juicy cock.

Sometimes backing off the cock a little and concentrating on sucking just the head, much like you would suckle a nipple on a baby bottle, can bring him so close to climax that one or two good slides up and down on that hardness makes him shoot like a rocket. Suck in and out quickly, as if you're milking the head, and then slowly slide down onto the cock fully with your mouth and hand.

Approach 15 - Go down on the cock shaft as far as you are comfortable. All the while your lips should be firmly wrapped around the shaft. Open your mouth as wide as you can and suck in as much air as your lungs will hold. While sucking in air let your open mouth travel up to the cock head. Your up stroke motion should end at the head of his cock just as your lungs fill with air. Now with your mouth still open let the air in your lungs out slowly through your mouth as your opened mouth travels back down the cock shaft. This technique cools the cock on the up stoke and warms the cock with your hot breath on the down stroke. Do this movement as long as you like then return to the basic sucking method.

You are doing just fine and he loves it! Keep it up since you are comfortable with it. For his added pleasure and to give you something to play with reach up and fondle his balls. Or go up even further and play with his nipples. This will give him something else to concentrated on so he does not come, yet. If you feel he is about to ejaculate, stop what you are doing and let him cool off for a few minutes. After all you are having fun and you want to enjoy his cock as much as you can until you get tired of it. Since he likes, and he will want it to last as long as you can keep it going. Then let him go!

Approach 16 - Place his stiff cock inside your mouth but do not tighten your lips around the shaft. With your head begin a circle motion. The cock will slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the circle motion. Watch your teeth on this one.

A kneeling position will suffice but it is also effective when he is on his back and your head is directly over his cock. You should execute the circle in both clockwise and counterclockwise motions in a slow purposeful manner.

Approach 17 - The key to knowing how to suck cock well is to use a wide variety of techniques first, then afterward, only focus on the techniques that you know he likes. You don't have to ask him which techniques he likes. Instead you just have to listen to his body. When he starts to breathe really deeply or with really short and shallow breaths, then you'll know that he likes it. But when he sounds as if he is fast asleep, then you know that he is not enjoying what you are doing and you are going to have to learn how to give a blow job better! Try to only focus on the blow job techniques that he enjoys.

Approach 18 - The tickle and blow is an oral sex technique that will pretty much give him double the stimulation. Not many women know this, but a man's testicles (balls) are incredibly sensitive. Why else do you think it hurts him so much when gets kicked in the nuts? So while you are giving him a regular blow job, all you need to do is to use just one hand to gently massage (?tickle') his testicles. This practically doubles the pleasure he will get from blow job.

Approach 19 - This oral sex technique is a little different from most you'll hear. You see most men like taking the lead during sex. However when he's getting a blow job, you are usually going to be the one in control. To change this, let him be the driver. In other words, let him tell you what to do, when to suck and when to use your hands, etc. This will make it more enjoyable for him and will take a lot of the pressure off you. All you need to do to get him to give you directions is say, "Hey baby, I want to get better at giving blow jobs, just tell me what to do." When most men hear this, their eyes will practically explode and they will be very eager to give directions.

Approach 20 - The natural tendency of the body is to gag when a foreign object, such as a deeply thrusting cock, is being forced down your throat. You can overcome this tendency by completely relaxing your throat just when he makes the insertion. It is equally important that you maintain this relaxation during the entire deep throating.

Let him put his cock down your throat and hold it still while you find the most comfortable way to continue. Because of your position you probably cannot move or offer him any greater stimulation than simply keeping your mouth tightly closed around his throbbing cock. If you are able, try to stimulate his underside with your tongue, do it!

You can relax and take his cock in this way if you completely trust him. He is in full control. He must initiate and maintain all the motion. This is the only exercise in which you relinquish your control of the situation to him. He will relish this for the simple fact that for the first time he can insert his cock as deeply down your throat as he wants. He should start slowly, especially if this is a completely new experience for the two of you. After all if he hurts you he cuts himself off from some great pleasures in life. His only other requirement during this exercise is to keep the motion in the same direction throughout this oral exercise as there is simply no leeway for him to vary the motion from side to side.

Don't let him get carried away at the moment he starts to ejaculate. At that spectacular moment he will be able for the first time to thrust his cock all the way inside your oral cavity and that is the most important lesson of this exercise! His only other requirement during the exercise is to keep the motion in the same direction against your lips as he ejaculates. Because of your position in bed, you will not have a problem of swallowing his ejaculate. This is not just because he has a condom on his cock. The reason is that he has gotten his cock BEYOND your gag reflex! Without the rubber his ejaculate would shoot directly into your stomach! If both you and he understand what it is that you are trying to do plus the possible problems that he may "ejaculate" up along the way no harm or discomfort will happen to either of you.

It is possible that not everyone will learn the "deep throat" technique but this inability does not make you any less a cock lover. You must allow your throat to relax completely while he is thrusting his cock deeply down your throat. To do this long enough for him to completely get it off is very difficult and may require practice beyond this day. Perhaps you can take him completely down your throat, but you cannot maintain proper relaxation of your throat to until he shoots his load. Hopefully, he will understand that this is not a rejection of him or of what he is offering you.

Tips, Tricks and Ideas

- At the point of no return, meaning he is going to orgasm, take some ice- cubes and place them on his balls. The sudden reaction to cold intensifies the experience.

- Bring hands toward you while giving a blow job.

- Combine using your hands with mouth. This gives you more ability to cover more of his cock or hurt your jaw by taking too much of him into your mouth.

- Cup his balls in your mouth. Use your tongue to move them around. Begin by using light touch. Change the speed and pressure. Listen for his response. There is wide variability in men how they like, if at all, having their balls stimulated.

- Drink some hot water just before giving a blow job. Again, this is simply shifting the sensations of the same touch.

- Make noise while giving a blow job. Act as if giving a blow job is really turning you on. By seeming turned on, your partner will have an easier time relaxing and simply enjoying the blow job.

- Move hands away from mouth while giving a blow job.

- Move your hands up and down in sync with the blow job. The increased contact with the cock, almost feels like deep throating.

- Put an ice- cube in your mouth while giving a blow job. This intensifies the blow job by creating an extra unusual sensation. Warmth and heat mixed.

- Take your hands and place them under his butt. Move his butt toward you.

- Use the base of your tongue to move his cock toward the back of your throat. Apply pressure with your tongue on his cock.

- Wrap your tongue around his cock and pull back.

- Taking your hand, make a fist around the shaft of your lover's cock with your little finger resting on his pubic bone. Then simultaneously take your mouth and go up and down the head and upper shaft of his cock while you go up and down with your hand at the same time. This gives the same sensation of you "deep throating" him (taking him deep into your throat). Adding different combinations with both hands, or your mouth make for creativity and fun.

- Slow Down and Tease Him: Don't just put it in your mouth and start sucking unless you just want to just "get it over with." Lick him slowly and play with him. Lick his balls. Tease his cock! This technique really builds him up for a massive orgasm.

- Keep at it! Whatever pace and pressure is giving him the most pleasure is what you should stick to now. Don't stop until he pulls out of your mouth. Whether you swallow is entirely up to you, but avoid stopping or moving away before he's finished climaxing to avoid ruining the mood. Continue to work that cock and only slow down once you feel climax.

- Never start something that you're not willing to finish.

- Be confident, the first time you give oral sex just fake it till you make it. This means that you just need to pretend to be confident even if you are very nervous inside. Go slow and just pretend you know what you are doing.

- Kiss It ? This is obvious and should be a first ?moves' that you try. All you need to do is slowly and gently to kiss his cock with your lips. Make sure to start with really soft and gentle kisses and slowly build them up.

- A vibrator will enhance his pleasure when used around and on his cock and perineum. It will add new dimensions to the attention you are giving to him.

- If you are not using a variety of techniques with your tongue, lips, hands and fingers then you are probably giving a boring blow job.

Only try one new technique per week. Give yourself the opportunity to practice and change with time. By introducing everything all at once, you run the risk of not only overwhelming him but of running out of ideas. Giving a good blow job requires that you do not develop anyone particular routine. Each time you give a blow job it should be different. Change, including slight moderations, keeps blow jobs feeling new and exciting.

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