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Halloween Party Sex or How We Got Started in the Lifestyle

B worked as a substitute teacher at a particular elementary school off and on over the last 6 years. During that time, she made great friends with many of the teachers including a couple of the men. Before she met me, she had slept with two of the male teachers while she was still married to her ex-husband. After an absence of a couple of years, she returned to this little elementary school and reestablished her friendships. At this point, we were married but we were not open yet.

We had discussed having sex with others but B was resistant. After my own 30 year experience of monogamy, I realized that monogamy was a convention of society and the church but had nothing to do with biology and the human experience. So I frequently brought up the natural biological reasons humans were not monogamous and pointed out we would have gone extinct with our prudish monogamy. B was pretty normal and average in her sexual experiences before her 16 year marriage to Randy. Randy, however, was well below average in interest and activity having sex no more than a dozen times a year and sometimes with droughts of a year or more. Around year 13 or so, B started having affairs and became quite active. She had over a dozen different relationships over a two year period before she met me so I knew she had a healthy appetite for sex even if she didn't acknowledge it in herself.

So back to the elementary school. B had reacquainted with one male teacher named Bill who she had slept with 4 or 5 times some years back. He liked to text her at night and early in the morning. I noticed myself becoming jealous of Bill and having lived with an insanely jealous wife, I knew that jealousy was a poison pill. I also saw myself becoming more and more insecure that her friendship with Bill would be the end of us. So the weekend before Halloween 2016, I went back to my hometown to meet up with my friends from high school and she was alone back home. She had been invited to a vanilla Halloween party but since I was out of town, she planned not to go. While I was away, I had time to think about my jealousy and my anxiety about her and this Bill character and I realized that if she wanted to be with Bill, all I could do would be stop her from seeing him physically, but I could never stop her from wanting him in her mind. Then it dawned on me that if that was what she really wanted, who was I to stop her? I hated my ex-wife for her petty jealousies when I DIDN'T have an attraction to someone and I couldn't become that same selfish person.

So I told B to go to the party with Bill. And then I told her that we were never meant to be monogamous creatures and that it was just sex. Not love. And I couldn't stop that either. She had to go and go with Bill and fuck him after, during or whenever. We talked for hours that Saturday morning and we agreed that both of us could enjoy others and that we would open up our relationship slowly.

She called Bill and to no surprise, he jumped at the chance to go with her. They dressed in costumes and went to the party for a couple of hours and then she went back to his house. They fucked and he took her home. She texted me at 2am she was back and I could barely sleep. I was five hours away and around 3:30 am, I decided not to wait for morning. I wanted her so bad I just left and arrived home at 8:30. I was so charged up and so was she that we had sex all day off and on with somewhere around 10 orgasms each. There was something extraordinary and other worldly about her having sex with someone else and I knew and approved of it.

We launched our open relationship on that night and we have had nothing but success in our relationship since. We prefer to play together, but as everyone knows, the permutations of connection only get harder with four people. We have both played alone but always with full knowledge and approval of the other. We have limits and we have boundaries with certain people. It is as if we went to a higher level of sexual consciousness and overcame centuries of suppression and groupthink. I hope you find your nirvana too.

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