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Blow Jobs

Most men are intimately familiar with their genitalia, even if they do not know how it functions. Although some won't admit it, many men begin masturbating in their early teens. Despite threats from their mothers that they would go blind, men have become expert masturbators. Conversely, women in this society experience an anti-sexual upbringing and are unfamiliar with their own genitalia. They are then even less familiar with the male genitalia. Thus the problem begins. To make matters worse, women have relatively fewer sex partners, which means fewer experiences. Women expect the man to "know" how to please her and he will feel inadequate if he is not successful. Good communication is the key to outstanding sexual experiences. Both partners are responsible for insuring sexual satisfaction.

Ladies, in this article I will give some tips on giving great blow jobs. Next month we'll talk to the men about female orgasm.

Woman are rarely concerned about penis size, yet even before adulthood, men equate manliness with the size of their penis. The average penis is approximately six inches in length when aroused, while the average vagina is only three inches deep . . . you do the math. The penis is composed of spongy erectile tissue and its main function is to deposit sperm. The foreskin in the uncircumcised male covers the head of the penis. The scrotum hangs under the penis and has many blood vessels to stabilize the proper temperature and ensure healthy sperm. In order to give great blow jobs we don't need to go into the complete medical layout of the male body, just become familiar with these two parts.

Many men like it if you get between their legs to play. This allows them to watch, touch and maneuver better. If you place yourself between the legs you can balance and get full access to the penis and the balls. Men enjoy having their balls touched ands licked as well as the penis. Start by taking the penis in your hand. As you move it up and down you will feel it grow. You might enjoy the sensation of it growing in your mouth - place the penis in your mouth and just gently suck. Friction is what makes the penis get enlarged so remember to keep moving. If he is circumcised, pull back on the skin at the base of the shaft to expose the sensitive area under the foreskin

Some women have a strong gag reflex. This can make things difficult, but can be overcome. By grasping the penis shaft at the base with your hand, the length of the penis that you can insert into the mouth is much smaller, but still feels to your partner as if all of it is in your mouth. Also, if you place the penis towards to roof of your mouth he will sense that he is filling you and you do not touch the gag area in the back of your- throat. Keep your mouth moist. Many women spend too much time trying to swallow saliva, let it run out, it is a good lubricant.

Vary your technique. As you have his penis in your hand, place it in your mouth and move both your hands and your mouth up and down. Let the head of the penis go into your throat as far as you can then back out. Take just the head and suck. Take the head and hold it in your mouth, do not move your hands but move your tongue all around it. Take your tongue and enter the hole on the tip. This is extremely sensitive.

Play with his penis. Lick it like an ice cream cone. Run your tongue up the shaft like licking a cone. Repeat it in several areas. Lick around the top just under the head. That is a very sensitive area so keep your mouth moist. The head or `glans' is considered the most sensitive area for uncircumcised men while the frenulum (the area just below the head on the bottom of the penis) is especially sensitive in circumcised men. This is a good spot to focus some attention. Run your tongue on it. Remember to pull back the foreskin in order to expose this area if he is circumcised.

Stroking in time with some slow love song is an excellent way to pace the activity. Take his penis in your hands and roll it. Very gently roll it back and forth like rolling bread. Remember no twisting and turning ... very gently roll and move your hands up and down the shaft. If you want to be a virgin again tighten the grip. If you want to tease make the grip very loose so he feels a feather going over him. When you stroke go up and down the full length of the penis even over the top. If things start to get dry, place it in your mouth for the warm sensation and the moisture.

Another area to tease is the crease where the top of the leg meets the torso. Lick that area while holding his penis and/or his balls. Move the balls around in your hand like crap dice. Place his balls in your mouth and make a low humming sound. Get the penis very moist, then suck air in with your mouth over it, the cool air on his penis is very exciting. Place an ice cube (small) in your mouth then place him in your mouth. You can expect a jump but he will be smiling. Some ladies place mints in their mouths then let it melt while going up and down. Be careful not to use strong mints as they can cause discomfort.

What about swallowing? For some women this is a reason not to give blow jobs because they don't like the taste of cum. Yet men find it very sensual to watch someone swallow. There are a few tricks to give the illusion of swallowing. To avoid the taste , place the penis as far back in your throat as you can. If the cum does not touch the taste buds, then there is no taste. (the taste buds on the side of the tongue are the bitter buds). If you do not get sufficient warning to prepare then let the cum gather in one area and swallow all at one time (like taking a shot). If you watch many porn movies you will also notice that you can force the cum back out. This gives lubrication as you continue to jack him off and it is at the front of the mouth where the sweet taste buds are. Last, remove his penis from your mouth and let him cum over you. Your face, your breasts, whatever is handy.

Words of caution. Some men use a cream that allows them to stay harder longer by desensitizing the penis. This is ok for hand jobs and intercourse but many of those creams have Novocain in them and the woman's mouth can go numb. Let her know if and when you use such a cream.

True Story: During one of our `play sessions' a lady was skillfully and passionately performing fellatio when her mouth began to go numb. Soon she had no feeling in it at all. It was like watching a sitcom when she started slurring her words. After a few minutes the lady was barely able to talk, let alone continue the performance. Turns out the gentleman had used one of those creams on his penis to make him last longer for the orgy, and it also worked on his partner's mouth. Play time is over

Suzanne and Michael Rocky Mountain Connections Social Club www.rmcsc.com 720-363-7946 Explore your fantasies